mstrk wrote:But we have never had a problem with our dogs like that.
This really stands out to me...this is how it always goes. It is our jobs as their owners to never put them in a situation where a problem could arise. Feeding four dogs at once....if every little aspect of that situation isn't under control you can have a very bad incident.
My Wife is a Vet Tech and it is not fair to assume people who are posting on this board are inexperienced. My wife was also a former public advocate for pit bills and she even had a group that met up to overturn the unfair laws against pit bulls.
Now, not to say anything bad against pit bulls, I think the fact here is Toby has a mental problem. All of our dogs are rescue dogs and you don't know how many levels of inbreeding Toby possibly had to make his brain messed up like that.
You're absolutely right, it isn't fair of us to assume the people that are (new to) posting here are inexperienced. But from my experience, and I'm sure others can attest to this, that's the most common thing that happens. People come here looking for help because they're inexperienced...there are a few that just want other PB people to talk to-but they're not the ones posting a thread called should we euth our dogs. I think it's unfair for you to be mad at us for judging you on the information you provided. If you wanted us to know you were more experienced with these dogs-you could have said so (in any number of ways).
I agree with the other poster who said it's unfair to suddenly think Toby has a mental problem...did you guys feel this way before? What were the other signs? Because attacking another dog (especially over a resource) isn't grounds for mental instability.
I am very disturbed by the first poster "Curly_07" who basically blamed my Wife in a cold way and who stated "no two dogs should be left alone" Really? Um, they were not even left alone. All 4 dogs were in the kitchen waiting to be fed, just like every normal day. So you are wrong, Curly_07 and you are an insensitive pig head.
I believe Curly also said that your wife should have only had out the number of dogs she could have handled. Calling Curly insensitive is one thing, but pig head is another...be careful with the name calling, that doesn't usually fly around here.
Personally for me I don't give a rat’s ass about break sticks. We don't own any in our house. I'm not going to have 50 break sticks laying around my house in the off chance my dogs get into it (and they have gotten into it). Because chances are if they do, the last thing I'm going to be looking for is a break stick to stop the fight. I know a lot of people here advocate for them but I think they just add fuel to the "locking jaw" fire . I think in the future if you or your wife are ever there when a dog fight happens the dogs that are not fighting should be separated from those that are. And then the fighting dogs should be separated. Some people advocate keeping collars on the dogs so that if they do fight the aggressor's collar can be used to choke the dog into stopping. You guys need to decide what works best for you.
Just so you know what the professionals said, two separate veterinarians advised us to put Toby down after meeting him. This is the opinion of professionals that met him and told us that based on what Toby did to Rosa, Toby will kill another dog if he is put in any situation like that again. They also said in their years of experience this incident is at the top of the most violent and bizarre.
I'm curious to know how "professional" these people really are. Were they vets? Typically vets are versed in medicine, but not necessarily behavioral issues. Were they trainers? What were their qualifications? Where they behaviorists? Were they certified? Where did you find them? Not questions I'm asking you to answer here, but perhaps something to consider when relying so heavily on their suggestions. Why compound the issue by killing another dog?
Who are any of you to state your opinion so bluntly as if you know our situation, our dogs, or our lives?
Well...we're the people you asked on an internet forum (clearly of dog lovers) if you should euthanize your dog. I completely understand the emotional turmoil you're going through...okay maybe not completely because I haven't experienced it, but I can see how this would be emotionally effed up...but you asked for advice, it can only be given based on our personal experiences and the information you provide. I know a couple of people here can come off rude and a little rough around the edges-myself included...but a couple things come to mind 1) we're pretty passionate about these dogs and obviously feel very strongly about how they're handled and who handles them, 2) we see a lot of "owners" who don't know their ass from their elbow and it frightens us in regards to the future of this breed, and lastly 3) when owning one of these dogs you have to have thick skin. If you think someone saying Rosa's death is your fault (because it could have been prevented) is harsh, then maybe PB's aren't the right dog for you....I once had a lady tell me the only way she'd pet my dog was if she had a .38 in the other hand...and there was no reason for it, my dog wasn't misbehaving, I wasn't being rude to her, she just said it because of the way my dog looked.
Again, I'm really sorry Rosa is gone...and I can't imagine what your wife went through witnessing that, but even from bad situations can come knowledge. Please learn from this. Don't malign a breed because of it, or a specific dog (or two even). The dogs were just doing what dogs do. PBs were bred to fight, you as an owner have to eliminate all possibilities for that to happen.
As an a side, I will say that I agree with the professionals in regards to-if Toby is given the chance he could harm or kill another dog/animal. As I have said, and others, many times, you have to prevent that from happening. I'm not saying every encounter Toby has with another dog is going to end in death, but we always have to remember that they're animals.