Murfins wrote:Knowing when to let them go is one of the hardest things to decide but then all of a sudden, at least in my experience, it become crystal clear that it is time. I'm trying to say that most likely, you will know with a good to great amount of certainty when it is time.
I think that is what I needed to hear, thank you. I keep asking myself if we're being selfish keeping her going now, but then I think that any bit of joy that she shows from cuddles or seeing people, well I want her to have as much of that as she can. I hope I will know with certainty when it's time.
She was bad last night, but then had a big sleep under the covers with her daddy. Now she had the energy paste thing and I fed her a jar of baby food with a spoon and she seems more alert now. I'm going to make her some ground beef with a tiny bit of sweet potato mashed in, she seemed to like that the last time I gave it to her.
I just ran into my SIL at the supermarket and started cyring while talking to her in front of all the Christmas Eve shoppers and now I've started I can't stop.
Anyway, thank you all for your support, it really helps to have contact with people who understand.