BTW- the dog is in foster care. I found that out when I called for her earlier in the week.
I think the biggest problem is the last Pit Bull we adopted, Gunther. He's my avitar right now. I had a friend that worked at a shelter that told me about this beautiful boy. He was one week away from being destroyed. So we went down to the shelter ASAP. We met Gunther and fell in love right away. Took him home and found out why no one wanted to adopt him. He is the most strung out wired Pit I've ever seen. So much damn energy, not trained and just an all around terror. To be honest, it was a struggle to keep him. But, we comitted ourselves not to let him die in a shelter.
Anyway, after a year and lot's of professional training, he is apart of the family. Still a little crazy. Hence the name: Crazy Gunther!!! I think that's the root of everything. She doesn't want another dog that's almost legally insane. Me, I'm willing to do whatever it takes, training, money whatever.
Sorry for the rant, I should have probably PMed this to you.