by LizIs » Thu Oct 18, 2012 1:12 pm
To the original poster, I honestly don't think Enigma was trying to be rude. The response was very blunt, to be sure, and over the internet blunt can sometimes be interpreted as rude. A lot of the more seasoned APBT rescue people are going to be blunt on this forum. Unfortunately, sometimes threads degenerate as a result of misinterpreted intentions. I often read responses from some of the senior members and think "well that could have been phrased nicer" or "that response could have been softened a bit..." But, putting myself in their shoes, I can also understand why there's no time for anything but blunt responses at times.
A lot of these guys have spent years fighting the good fight- trying to educate, promote tolerance, and save dogs while seeing so many go homelesss, abused or euthed. I'm not a foster or a running a rescue but I imagine they sometimes feel a bit like Sisyphus, rolling a boulder up a hill just to watch it roll back down, and then repeating this action forever.
Senior members please correct me if I'm wrong because I am not trying to be rude in the least, but maybe some of them have just seen so much and have been in the rescue community so long, that it's hard to remember what it was like back before they knew everything they know now... what it was like to just be able to softball and sugar-coat and have the time and patience to hope for success with the slow reasoning process that most other people, myself included, require in order to be open to educational or advice at all.